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Therapy for Complex Trauma, Narcissistic Abuse and Grief and Loss


Uncovering the Power of Brainspotting: A New Approach to Healing Complex Trauma
Complex trauma can leave deep, lasting effects on individuals, impacting their emotional, psychological, and physical well-being. Many...
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
4 days ago4 min read
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Reclaiming Your True Self: Rising From the Shadows of Narcissistic Abuse
Narcissistic abuse can quietly dismantle one’s sense of self. It often leaves victims feeling lost and confused about who they truly are....
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Mar 174 min read
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The Unexpected Connection Between Sensory Overwhelm and PTSD: Exploring Uncharted Territory
Anxiety and overwhelm. PTSD. Sensory overwhelm can hit hard, making a person's day feel unbearable. For many, it may just be an...
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Mar 74 min read
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Unraveling the Depths: Exploring EMDR for Complex Trauma and the Path to Healing
Complex trauma can be overwhelming, often stemming from prolonged stressors like childhood abuse or ongoing neglect. The scars it leaves...
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Mar 54 min read
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The Unseen Battles: Navigating Lifelong Reactivity in Complex Trauma Survivors
Complex trauma, often rooted in early and prolonged exposure to overwhelming stressors, has a profound and lasting impact on those who...
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Feb 254 min read
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How to Navigate Co-Parenting with a Narcissist: A Guide for Surviving Narcissistic Abuse and Divorce
Co-parenting can be a daunting task, especially when a narcissist is involved. Their tendency to manipulate, control, and create drama...
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Feb 105 min read
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Unraveling the Pain: Navigating Healing from Betrayal Trauma
Experiencing betrayal can feel like having your world turned upside down. Betrayal trauma strikes at the heart of our trust, leaving...
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Jan 233 min read
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Unveiling the Unseen Strength: Navigating Post-Traumatic Growth with Confidence and Resilience
In the face of trauma, it can often feel like the darkness will never lift. Yet, within that darkness, there exists a profound capacity...
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Jan 143 min read
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Unveiling Your True Identity: Embracing the Journey of Self-Rediscovery After Pre-Abuse Identity Loss
Rediscovering oneself after trauma is no small feat. For those who have faced abuse, this journey frequently begins with acknowledging...
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Jan 74 min read
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The Power of Vulnerability: Navigating The Healing Journey with Courage and Resilience
Embracing vulnerability is a crucial part of the healing journey, acting as a powerful bridge between pain and recovery. It takes immense...
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Dec 11, 20243 min read
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Reclaiming your narrative after narcissistic relationships...
How Do I Change The Way I see Myself After My Narcissistic Relationship? Often narcissistic abuse involves the hijacking of your sense of...
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Dec 7, 20242 min read
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Maintaining Boundaries: Navigating Family Dynamics During The Holidays
Uncover tactics for setting healthy boundaries with relatives as the holidays approach The holiday season is here. Yay! Or nay? Sometimes...
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Nov 25, 20243 min read
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Healing is a journey, not a destination.
I'm sure you've heard this a time or two before- Healing is a journey, not a destination. But it's true. There is no such thing as being...
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Oct 24, 20241 min read
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The Gaslighting Timeline...
Have you ever wondered what the purpose of goal of gaslighting really is? That is...when your dealing with a narcissistic person? Well,...
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Oct 18, 20242 min read
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Narcissistic Abuse and 'Secondary Gaslighting'
It's hard enough to go through narcissistic abuse, where you feel crazy and can't quite believe what is happening to you. It doubles when...
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Oct 8, 20242 min read
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Healing From Narcissistic Abuse and Learning About 'The Complex Trauma Symptom Spectrum'
Owner, Courtney Loyola, sat down for a podcast to discuss narcissistic abuse, complex trauma symptom spectrum and how to heal from trauma.
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Nov 7, 20220 min read
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The Complex Trauma Symptom Spectrum
The Complex Trauma Symptom Spectrum Written by: Courtney Johnson MA, LPC, Executive Contributor Executive Contributors at Brainz...
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Jun 6, 20223 min read
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How Did I Get Here? Surviving Narcissistic Abuse
Nov 11, 2021 5 min read How Did I Get Here? Surviving Narcissistic Abuse Written by: Courtney Johnson MA, LPC, Executive Contributor ...
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Jun 6, 20225 min read
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Coping With The Holidays
Welcome to Coping With The Holidays! Do you have a toxic family? Holiday stress? Check out my blog on how to have a healthy holiday season!
Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Nov 12, 202010 min read
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